- Call in advance to advise you are coming to visit.
- New parents don’t get out much, so having something to look forward to goes a long way during those first few weeks.
- Overstay your welcome. An hour and a half tops! It’s not that we don’t love you but we’re so sleep deprived in the beginning that it’s like were learning to socialize again.
- Bring Food! Parenting is a 24/7 job. At the beginning we’re lucky if we have enough time to eat. Cooking equals heating up a frozen dinner or calling a delivery service, we simply can’t be bothered. If you bring food, not only will we be surprised, but eternally grateful.
- Do not ask new parents sensitive questions and offer unsolicited advice. It’s great to reminisce your parenting experience. However, each journey is unique.
- We are already insecure and vulnerable as it is. Do not make us anxious on top of it.
- Talk to us about things other than baby and parenting. Just because we are in a new chapter in our lives, does not mean our old interests cease to exist.
- If there are pets in the household, do not touch the pet and the baby without washing your hands! In this case, sharing is not caring.
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